The Values Jar Exercise

When we are feeling lost in life we need a direction. I like to work with people on identify what their values are (who they want to be, how they want to relate to others). Values are like a compass. When you are lost, you can pull out your compass and choose a...

The Crying Baby on the Plane

Imagine you have an 8 hour overnight flight on a plane. Well you just lucked out. You are sitting there and you an entire row to yourself. You can stretch out, watch netflixs, you feel like you hit the jackpot. Just as the plane doors are closing a family gets on the...

Your Inner Sunflower

Do you find yourself being super critical and judgmental about yourself? Sometimes that inner critic is helpful. Other times is it not. It can cause us to alway be in our head, telling us we are not good enough, never will be, points out every little perceived...

Building your House: The Power of Acceptance

Have you ever noticed in your life that when you avoid difficult or painful events/situations, you are also narrowing the options available to you in your life?  By avoiding the painful situation, you gain the short term benefit of feeling more comfortable, but you...

Acceptance: an antidote to Anxiety

Have you ever felt overwhelming anxiety?  A panic attack? Worried that something bad is going to happen to you?  Or can’t stop thinking about some painful past event? What is your normal response to the anxiety, panic attacks, or painful thoughts? The logical...